I do this thing, where I think really intensely about something for 3-4 days and then I come to a conclusion, and then I decide to act on it. Except that it usually fails, and as I was washing dishes this evening, I came up with a reason as to why that might be.
I think in a vacuum. I forget to let real-life variables weigh in, particularly when my intense thinking involves other parties. And then I act as if these other parties are privvy to my complex mental process.
But not this time.
I'm going to take all of these intense thoughts I've been having and share them as candidly as possible with the other parties involved. And also, not stake too much in the response.
Hopefully this will help buffer a potentially unfavourable response.
Hopefully...
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