Direct, open communication is one of my top values. I really want i to be central in all of my relationships because it's something I need in order to function and thrive.
Currently, I'm bumping up against this value as I contemplate a three year relationship that's caused a lot of growth and also a tremendous amount of pain. Usually relationships taper of, but I'm challenging myself to be more active an intentional about the way I end this relationship. I feel like if I let it taper off, there will always be an open door for things to get stirred up again.
And that is not what I want, at all.
I want things to be cut and dry, with absolutely no room for resurrection--at least that's my current thought process. I need time and space to Heal from the Hurts an that means no contact.
:le sigh:
It's time to fully heal.
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